Monday, November 25, 2013

November Book Review: The Doll People

This month for our Mommy and Me Book Club, Chloe and I read The Doll People by Ann M. Martin and Laura Godwin.  I know that one shouldn't, but I totally judged this book by its cover.  Its beautiful, beautiful cover. 


The Doll People is the story of Annabelle Doll, the eight year old daughter of Mom Doll and Dad Doll who has been living in the same dollhouse for the last hundred years.  Nothing ever changes, until one day a new family, the Funcrafts, move into the human's house.  There's a mystery involving the disappearance of Annabelle's Auntie Sarah 45 years earlier and lots of adventures involving the attic and the human family's cat, The Captain.  All of it is beautifully illustrated by Brain Selznick.  This is the first book in a series of books about the Doll family.

For our book club discussion, I decided to take Chloe and her favorite doll out to lunch at the American Girl Bistro on a windy Saturday afternoon.  Neither of us had been to an American Girl store before, so we weren't aware that there would be a two and a half hour wait for us to eat their tiny overpriced food. 

We decided to have lunch next door at Cheeseburger Cheeseburger and get some dessert at the bistro.  I'm guessing those diner folks get a lot of business from the American Girl store, considering they immediately brought out a high chair for Chloe's doll, Moonie.

Moonie is a My Friend Mandy doll that I got when I was a little girl.  I don't even remember her real name, but Chloe named her "Moonie" a long time ago.  One of the things I loved about The Doll People was that the dollhouse had been handed down from mother to daughter over the years.  It gave me a warm, fuzzy feeling when I told Chloe to go get her favorite doll and she brought out my favorite doll.

After lunch, we headed back to the doll store and looked at all the doll clothes that cost more than anything I own.  Chloe got her picture taken with her favorite doll, Saige.  I scored major mommy points for knowing who that doll was.  (Thank you, girls I babysat who made me sit through that Saige movie starring Jane Seymour and the third hottest guy from Dawson's Creek.)

Here's the hair salon where you can pay to have a professional do your doll's hair.  Did you know that was a career choice?  Why did I even go to college? 

Eventually the maĆ®tre d called our name and we sat down at the bistro bar.  They were very kind to Moonie, which was nice because she was clearly not from around there.  The waitress brought her some lemonade, no charge. 

Chloe and I had fun talking about the book and how much we loved it.  There's a great theme throughout the story about when to play it safe and when to be brave.  There was also a great lesson about making new friends and not judging people before you get to know them.  I asked Chloe if she thinks her toys come to life when she's sleeping.  She said, "I didn't used to until I read that book and saw all those movies about it."

I ordered the chocolate mousse in a flowerpot with cookies on the side.  Best chocolate chip cookies I've ever eaten in my life.

We had such a fun afternoon together and now I know where to go to buy $60 pajamas for Moonie.  Chloe and I would definitely recommend this book, the cookies at The American Girl Bistro, and the cheeseburgers at Cheeseburger Cheeseburger.

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

A Career Ending Injury

The day after we returned from Idaho, Jeff had knee surgery to repair a torn ACL and medial meniscus.  He was playing church basketball back in April and landed on his leg wrong.  Wives, I give you permission to use this story as a cautionary tale.
 
The surgery went well and he's been recovering quickly, but those first few days were pretty rough.  Jeff's not super great at letting me take care of him and I'm not super great at taking care of the kids and the house on my own.  I've come to appreciate what a great partnership we have and how much of the load he's been carrying.  There are days when I think that I'm the only one who ever does anything around here.  It turns out I'm full of crap.  Jeff does everything around here.  Husbands, I give you permission to use this story as a cautionary tale. 
 
I'm also grateful for our dear friends who have been so willing to help out.  We've had people babysit our kids, take them home from school, bring us dinner, drive our kids to activities, and we even had a family come and rake our leaves.  It's hard living so far away from family, especially when times are tough.  We're so blessed to have such a wonderful support system here.

Sunday, November 17, 2013

A Sentimental Journey

After the wedding in Logan, the kids and I drove up to Pocatello, Idaho and Jeff flew home.  We spent a few peaceful days at my parents' home playing with dolls, looking at photographs, and eating cake.  Lots and lots of cake. 
Mom bought a giant cake at Costco so we could start Chloe's birthday week off right.  I have a feeling they're still eating it.

Dad did his match trick for the party guests.  Amy's mind was blown.  A few years ago my sister, Katy, told me she still didn't know how the trick is done.  Ha!  (Magic, duh.)

Aaron and Lori and Amy and Jeff joined us for dinner two nights in a row.  Big fans of the kids or big moochers?  Who can tell?

The next day, I took the kids to visit my Grandma Shirley.  I love going to visit this house.  When we were kids, the front porch was filled with big wheels and folding chairs.  The kids would ride up and down the sidewalk while the grown ups talked on the porch.  It was awesome.
 
Grandma had been planning our visit for a month.  She went over it with me on the phone a few days before we came.  "First, I'll sit on the chair and the kids will sit on the couch and then they'll sing 'I Am a Child of God' for me and then I'll let them take turns playing with my pen that's also a flashlight"--and that's where she lost me.  A pen?  What's fun about that?
Apparently a lot.
 
The kids couldn't wait to play with the pen.  In fact, Miles loved it so much that she gave it to him.  That's all that kept him busy during the plane ride home.  Guess whose kids are getting a box of pen flashlights for Christmas?

This is my Grandma's kitchen.  It's beyond cluttered, but it always makes me feel warm and fuzzy when I step inside.  I spy: a newspaper article about a play I was in 15 years ago, a useless oven rack grabber that I made her when I was nine, a picture of me in a Peace College recruitment brochure, letters I've sent her over the past few months, the table where I sat and ate Special K and Spagetti-O's as a kid, and Grandma's handwriting labeling everything thoroughly.  My parents have moved a lot over the years, so I don't really have a childhood home to return to that's filled with happy memories.  That's what Grandma and Grandpa's house has been for me.  Nothing ever changes and there's something comforting about that.

Grandma was kind enough to give the kids a tour.  As you can see, the house is slowly closing in on her.  Don't worry.  I'm almost positive that is how she would prefer to go. 

I took a better picture of the three of them before we went into the house, but as we were leaving, Grandma said we had to take another one with the pen.  When we got in the car, I thanked the kids for being so well-behaved.  Harrison said, "We weren't even trying to be good, Mom.  That house was so cool!  There was so much stuff!"

Grandma Shirley (84 and 5/12) and Melissa (34 and 3/12)

After Grandma's, we met Mom and Dad at Buddy's for lunch.  My parents used to go on dates here back when they were a'courtin'.  The salad dressing sent my mom into labor a couple of times.

It had a similar effect on Chloe.  That night she threw up all over Miles, who lay fast asleep next to her in bed.  It was the grossest thing I've ever seen in my ten years of motherhood.  I've never wanted my mommy more.  Good thing she was there! 

The only highlight of the next day (which included two delayed planes and spending the day in the airport with children) was visiting My Awesome Friend Wendy in her new digs.  She reminded me that there is a light at the end of the medical training tunnel and took a moment to teach me how to pose for pictures.  Yep.  We should have been models.

I'd like to take a moment to thank my adorable parents for being so helpful during our visit.  Thank you for driving my kids to Idaho, cleaning them up, tucking them in, feeding them, teaching them, letting them bang on your piano, cleaning them up again, entertaining them, doing their laundry, and cleaning them up again.  You are all kinds of awesome and I love you.

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

A Family is Forever

A couple of weeks ago we had the pleasure of flying to Utah to see Jeff's sister, Amy, marry her own Jeff.  It was kind of a crazy day that started with me realizing I hadn't packed any makeup, making a 6am trip to Walmart to drop too much $$ on makeup I had at home, and coming back to my aunt and uncle's house to find that Harrison had vomited all his Halloween candy.  (The tradition continues!)  The day ended with Jeff realizing he had left his keys and glasses in the rental car I was driving up to Idaho and he couldn't get home to St. Louis without them.  It was craziness.  But whenever I think of that day, I have nothing but happy memories.
 
How could we not be happy for these two?  They're so M.F.E.O.
 
Little girls love weddings.  They were just giddy the entire day.
 
The boys endured the day well and looked sharp doing it.
 
One of the fun surprises of the day was having my parents there, too.  Amy and Jeff will be living in Pocatello, now, and my parents have been their chaperones in Idaho for the past few months.  It was so nice to have them with us the whole day.  Dad carried my bag and Mom kept the kids happy.
 
This picture makes me laugh really hard.  I can't wait for the day Harrison realizes that bunny ears have never been funny in the history of ever.
 
Finger guns, on the other hand . . .
 
Amy's brothers are real smart guys.
 
The Logan LDS Temple is very special to our family.  My parents and my Dad's parents were both married there. 
 
Here are my parents the day they got married.  (January 6, 1972)
 
And here they are today.  Just a couple of crazy kids in love.
 
Amy is the last of Jeff's siblings to get married, and everyone was able to be there in the temple that day.  What an amazing blessing and a happy day for Pops and Patti!  (Trent walked off the set.  Such a diva.)
 
After the wedding there was a luncheon where my sister-in-law, Mani, took a picture of me in focus.  This is rare.  After the wonderful luncheon, we had some time to kill, so naturally we went to the cemetery.
 
Harrison was actually pretty excited to find people he'd learned about from his family tree project.
 
Jeff's grandpa is buried in the same cemetery as my great-grandparents.  We all stopped by to pay our respects.
 
Some respects were more respectful than other respects. 
 
As we were leaving the cemetery, Harrison said, "When I die, on my tombstone under my name and the date, it's going to say, 'Kids can play on this tombstone.'"
 
My parents drove us around Logan and showed us some of the houses where my ancestors lived.  There was a pretty tree behind them, so I told them to pose like I was taking their engagement pictures.  Get a room, folks.
 
We partied some more at the reception and eventually the happy couple left under a canopy of sparklers.  We're grateful we could share this wonderful day with Amy and Jeff and wish them an eternity of happiness.
 
 

Friday, November 8, 2013

Birthday Baby

During our last beach trip with Jeff's family, I celebrated a birthday.  I have learned that there comes an age when you should stop expecting people to make a big deal about your birthday.  And that age is 11.  The one perk of birthdays when you're older is that you can play the birthday card.  (Not a birthday card, the birthday card.)  As in "It's my birthday, so I'm not cleaning anything today."  or "It's my birthday, so I'm eating nothing but chocolate today."  Or "It's my birthday, so will everyone wake up really early, put on some nice clothes, and take family pictures on the beach?  Please?"

The Birthday Card: works every time.  It was cloudy and overcast the entire week, except for the half hour we took family pictures when it was blazingly bright.  So this is our squinty family picture.  My talented sister-in-law, Mani of Emmanuelle's Photography, did a really lovely job, despite the bright light.  If you live in Utah, you should hire her.  Miles got sand in his eyes right after this, so he was done.

Now for the real reason for this post.  Today is our little girl's birthday and since she's eight years old, I'm going to make a big deal about it.
We love this little girl!  Chloe brings a lot of balance to our home.  She's the girliest of girls.  I once asked her if she wanted to sign up to play soccer and she looked at me like something smelled bad and said, "No!"  She prefers dancing and singing and painting her nails and playing with friends and watching movies with her mom. 
She'll laugh at your jokes (even if they aren't funny) and at least five times a night, she'll come out for "one last hug."  She never wants to hurt anyone's feelings, to the point where I have to remind her daily that her feelings matter, too. 
She's up for anything (like wakeboarding and playing American Ninja Warrior with her brothers) if it means she gets to be a part of the fun.  She rarely gets to play what she wants to play, but never complains about it.  When she comes up against obstacles, she usually has a good cry about it, and then pushes through and does what needs to be done.  I want to be more like her.
Chloe is looking forward to this year when she'll be baptized, move to a house where her bedroom isn't connected to the boys' room, and make new friends at a new school.
We can't wait to see what she does next.